💰 Who Pays for the Bachelorette Party? A Guide for Bridesmaids & Groomsmen

Planning a bachelorette or bachelor party is all about celebrating love, friendship, and good times—but let’s be real, the money talk can get awkward. Who pays for what? Is the bride or groom supposed to chip in? How do you split costs without drama?

Whether you're the maid of honor, best man, or part of the wedding crew, this guide will help you navigate the financial side of bach party planning like a pro.

🥂 So... Who Traditionally Pays?

Traditionally, the bridal party (aka bridesmaids or groomsmen) covers the cost of the bachelorette or bachelor party. This includes:

• Lodging

• Group meals

• Activities (think boat rentals, bar crawls, shows)

• Decorations and party supplies

• Swag (custom shirts, sashes, etc.)

The guest of honor—the bride or groom—usually doesn’t pay for their own share.

💸 How to Split Costs Fairly

1. Set a Budget Early
Start the planning convo with an honest discussion about everyone’s budget. Transparency avoids resentment later.

2. Use a Cost-Splitting App
Venmo, Splitwise, or group Google Sheets are great for keeping things clear and easy to track.

3. Consider Tiered Pricing
Not everyone may be able to commit to a full weekend bash. Offer options: full weekend vs. day events only.

🛍️ Should the Bride or Groom Ever Pay?

Sometimes, the bride or groom does offer to pay for certain things (like their own airfare or an extra activity they’re dying to do). But this should never be expected.

In cases where a party is super extravagant, the wedding party may ask the bride/groom to chip in—or scale back the plans to stay within budget.

✨ What About Guests Who Aren’t in the Wedding Party?

If you’re inviting friends outside of the wedding party, they typically pay their own way. Make sure everyone knows what’s expected upfront so no one is caught off guard.

🎉 Pro Tips for Stress-Free Planning

• Appoint one point person to handle payments and bookings

• Collect money before the trip when possible

• Plan a mix of free + paid activities to keep things balanced

• Communicate, communicate, communicate!

💌 Final Thoughts

At the end of the day, the best bachelorette or bachelor parties are about memories, not money. With a little planning and open communication, you can create an unforgettable celebration that’s fun and financially fair.

Need help planning your dream bach weekend? We’ve got you.

 👉 Contact us here to start planning with Bach Events by K&A!

🌴 Palm Springs Bach Party Guide: Where to Stay, Eat & Party

Planning a Palm Springs bachelorette or bachelor party? You're in for a weekend of sunshine, poolside vibes, and unforgettable moments. Whether you're keeping it lowkey or going full glam, Palm Springs has everything you need—and Bach Events by K&A is here to help make it effortlessly amazing. Here's your go-to guide to the best places to stay, eat, and party like queens or kings in the desert.

1. 🏡 Where to Stay: The Perfect Airbnb

Skip the hotel and book a stylish Airbnb that can host your whole crew. Look for spots with:

• A private pool

• Instagram-worthy decor (hello, mid-century modern)

• Spacious living areas for games, pregames, and lounging

2. 🍴 Where to Eat & Drink: Bites Your Bride Will Love

Palm Springs is full of flavorful spots and fun food experiences. Here are a few of our faves:

• Blue Coyote Grill – A festive, tropical dinner spot for your first night out. The margs are a must.

• Private Hibachi Chef – Yes, they’ll come to your rental! It’s dinner and a show, plus a super fun way to gather before a big night out.

• At-home Brunch – Chill in your matching PJs and enjoy a mimosa bar and breakfast spread at your Airbnb.
  

3. 💃 Where to Party: Turn Up Desert-Style

Palm Springs knows how to party—and so do we. Here’s how to do it right:

• Copa Nightclub – Glam vibes, great music, and plenty of room to dance.

• Showgirls Strip Club – Go bold. It’s a wild card that makes for an unforgettable night.

• Toucans Tiki Lounge – Enjoy a refreshing tiki drink with a live drag show followed by dancing.

4. 🛁 At-Home Fun: Bach Bash Vibes All Weekend

When you’re not out on the town, there’s plenty of fun to be had right at your Airbnb:

• Themed Pool Party – “Last Rodeo” is always a hit—grab the cowboy hats, floaties, and matching swimsuits.

• Hangover Yoga Flow – Recover and reconnect with a gentle yoga class designed just for your crew.

• Games & Good Vibes – Think DIY cocktail stations, bride/groom trivia, photo booths, and playlists that keep the energy high.

5. 💖 Let Us Plan It All

Don’t stress the details—we’ve got you. At Bach Events by K&A, we handle everything from itinerary creation and reservations to decor, logistics, and last-minute surprises. All you have to do is show up and celebrate.

Let’s plan a Palm Springs bach party your crew will never forget. 🍾✨ Contact us today to plan your dream party.

Introducing Bach Events by K&A!

Planning a bachelorette or bachelor party should be just as fun as the party itself—but let’s be real, it can get overwhelming fast. That’s where we come in. We’re Bach Events by K&A, your go-to bachelorette and bachelor party planners, here to take the stress off your plate so you can focus on the good times ahead.

We’re Katrina and Angela, the co-founders of this Filipina-owned business, bonded by our shared love for celebrating life’s biggest (and most fun) milestones. With a unique blend of creative vision and organizational wizardry, we make it our mission to turn your party dreams into unforgettable experiences.

🥂Meet the Team

Angela brings over a decade of experience in the TV and film industry, where she worked behind the scenes as a Production Coordinator. Her expertise in managing fast-paced, high-stakes projects translates beautifully into party-planning services. From building detailed timelines to ensuring every vendor and detail is locked in, she’s the one you want in your corner when things need to run smoothly—and look good doing it.

Katrina is a former breaking news journalist turned marketing and events pro. She’s a natural storyteller who believes that every celebration should feel like an epic, personalized story. With 7+ years in PR, branding, and live event coordination, she’s all about helping clients move through each phase of the planning process with ease and creativity. Katrina is also a certified yoga teacher (RYT 200), and just as she guides students through power vinyasa flows, she plans parties with intention, balance, and playfulness. 

🎉 Why Work With Us?

We specialize in custom bachelorette and bachelor party experiences that reflect your vibe, whether that means a luxe Palm Springs escape, a cozy cabin weekend in Big Bear, or a glam night out in San Diego. From venue booking and itinerary creation to decor and day-of coordination, we handle every detail—so all you have to do is show up and celebrate.

As a boutique planning company, we offer a hands-on, personalized approach with no cookie-cutter packages. Our clients trust us because we care deeply about the details, and we genuinely love creating experiences that feel like you.

So whether you're the bride-to-be, best man, maid of honor, or just the friend who got “voluntold” to plan it all—Bach Events by K&A is here to help you pull off something unforgettable. 🥂

Let’s party with purpose, style, and zero stress. Contact us to curate your dream bach event experience.